Hi ladys, I’ve
got something to talk about. Can you just sit for a while than think about how
unique we are?. Lets open this forum, first of all, we are all beautiful. With
all the characteristic, personality, our mindset, our attitude that can make
people know that we are different from each other. Secondly, we are all
clever/genius/smart in every single way we did. We can be a mother so it means
we have a responsible to have a child and be a mother for our children(;our
next generation that maybe can change the world’s face), we can be a scientist,
we can around the world, we can take a place in Averest Mountain or we can
diving deep the ocean just only seeing Titanic, we can do something that man
can do right? Is that special? Yes we
are. And the last, but not least, we
are all stronger. The shoulder and heart can make you feel confidence to face
the world. Maybe you feel pain last night, or feel like nothing because a man
who broke your heart, but tomorrow comes and you feel better than before. Just
imagine this man wrote about us:
“… they smile, just
the way they talk and laugh, you’ll see how precious something that can make
them like that. Over and over again, when something hurt and pain make them
cried, make them strong, make them still can smile even when randomly feeling,
what a incredible passion they had. Lady’s, you should be proud.”
Well, its funny when you loose someone who can make you
fall in love, than at least he make you feel nothing. Something like, ‘whats the point of this? just like a wind,
we don’t know, we don’t see it, but we can feel it. Well, that’s love, eh?’.
But seriously, for what? Can you
remembered the feeling when those eyes, those smile, those voice can make you
really nervous even only just seeing at him?. Funny. But boys only just be a
boys, or they decided to change into a man. You know that the transformation
like that need more time than we all know.
“..
I wish I could be that woman. With all the responsible on her shoulder and the
person who always standing besides her no matter bad things happen. Is that
real that a man like that only exist in fairytales? My father just like a king
to me, then who is my prince?.”
There are a thousand or billion man
on there, we can just find one of them just like “CLICK!” or just one second(;for an example), what a ceep magic. If
that happen so quickly, then there will be none story. Personally, my opinion
about this is “I always believe that
there will be a man on there, who will pick me up someday, and when he came, I
imagine that his smile and his eyes so warm and in that moment I feel ‘he’s the
one’ who can be my man like forever..” And trust me, that’s not only in
fairytales.
“…I
miss my old storys, I miss my bestfriend who always caloring my day. I missed
our laugh, our tears, our talks, our time that we spending together. Women
ussualy make the quality time with three list (;bestfriends, gossips, and cool
ootd). It can make higher mood for them. If only there a time machine in this
world, maybe the first wish I want to fixed up is wasting my time with my
parents. I want to learn how to be a great mother and wonderful wife in the
future. Because, we never know when we should ready to be an adult person
right?..”
The first time when you thought
you’re not an children anymore is when you realized that things in the world
more complicated than before. When you mindset changed and became more adult
and trying to complish the problem in your life. The first time in your mind is
“what happen for me now will became
easier than what happen in the future..” . To many problem solves by many
girls in this worlds, seems like family, friendship, school/collage, love, and
ofcourse sometimes problem from themselves. We all need more ‘ears’, ‘listener’ that can make us
believe that we all never be alone.
“..woman
with dresses, jewels, and higheals looks more elegan, expensive, high-class and
gorgeous than a lady with t-shirt, blue jeans, and converse on her shoes.”
That opinion was wrong. We all
beautiful in our way. I can write a story, my bestfriend beautiful as a
scientist, singer, accounting, doctor, etc. We all born in different ways,
different regions, different family that give first education for us. Honestly,
first time I felt to shy as ‘who I am’. I’m not pretty, I cant cook
profesionaly, sometimes I’m so awkward/nerd/weird/geek/different than the
other, I am not clever enough and I feel I had nothing special in my body. But
the more you think you are, the bad thing will show them up in your big-mind.
Just enjoy your life cause nobody can be like you and for sure you can be
somebody. Just take a breath, close you eyes for a while, feel the air,
remember all the memories can make you feel better, like you parents – you
family and all the loveable you get, your friend who always give their hand in
your shoulder, and ofcourse remember how special who are for your self that can
stand in that moment and feel blessed.
“..
I can see it. This moment when you know you’re not a sad story. You are alive
and you stand up and see the lights on the buildings and everything that makes
you wonder. And you’re listening to that song on that drive with the people you
love most in this world. And in this moment, I swear, we are Infinite..”
–Stephen Chbosky
Every
person has their own quotes, and that’s my best-quotes-ever. That’s make me
feel bless every single day in my life.
And I’m sure we all should feel that way.
